Because, I know personally how destructive pornography can be and how it does affect intimacy and the image guys have for women. I want to recommend three books. These three books will help in the rewiring process and are very practical.
Here is the thing, I know the same guys that complain about reading a book, something that can challenge them mentally will also spend hours looking on the internet for pornography. No benefit comes from spending time looking at pornography, but there are long term benefits to reading.
I want to encourage you and challenge you to read these three books: (Let me know if you want to do an online book discussion with any of these books.)
Wired for Intimacy - How pornography hijacks the male brain by William M. Struthers
Treating Pornography Addiction - The Essential Tools for Recovery by Dr. Kevin B. Skinner
Healing the Wounds of Sexual Addiction by Dr. Mark R. Laaser
For discussion: What is about pornography that makes it so appealing to so many men? Why do you think pornography has such a destructive effect on people?