Thursday, March 28, 2013

An Opportunity for Practical Hands On Ministry Experience through a Summer Internship

Summer Internship Opportunity:
Lakeside Community Church, Algoma, WI

As a church, we have a desire to reach out to people far from God and see them grow into passionate followers of Jesus.  People are often first attracted to Lakeside by the friendly, loving atmosphere they find and learn that it is a healthy place to grow spiritually, emotionally and relationally.

Lakeside Community Church is in the small town of Algoma, Wisconsin on the shore of Lake Michigan.  The area is striking with its beautiful water views and lush countryside.  Algoma is the epitome of a small town quality of life and yet it’s only minutes away from Green Bay where you’ll find entertainment, family activities and cultural opportunities.  It’s also the gateway to the beauty, culture and uniqueness of Door County.

The summer internship program at Lakeside is an intensive spiritual growth, leadership development and ministry immersion experience.  You will be given the opportunity to learn from some great innovative thinkers and creators in ministry, participate in the day-to-day activities of church staff culture and stretch yourself as a leader.  As a summer intern at Lakeside you will have the opportunity to learn from a church staff who loves what they do and loves to share their ministry and knowledge with others. Our heart is to help you find your place in the kingdom of God and help discern God's will for your life–the how, where and what God is calling you to do.  Summer interns will select a ministry concentration in which they will focus their efforts but will gain a holistic understanding of working as a team within the church.  Areas of concentration include: children's, youth and worship ministries.

For more information and how to apply, please see the attached full description and/or contact Pastor Chris Jarrell directly: Chris@Lakeside-Church.com.

Friday, January 11, 2013

Great Wisdom in the Tension -Leading through Creating Opportunities

I think one role of lead pastor as a leader is creating opportunities for others. If you do everything yourself, your potential is limited to your abilities. I know that sounds obvious, but the obvious eludes us! If you’re doing things that others can do 80% as well as you can, then you are not just wasting your time. You are wasting other’s gifts!(Agreed?)

Think of it this way: your responsibility = someone else’s opportunity!
If you learn to unleash others and create opportunities for them to step into their gifts, then your potential for impact multiplies exponentially. That’s one reason I love multi-site. It forces us to raise us six times as many people to use their gifts.

Few things are as emotionally rewarding to me as seeing people step into their gifts with holy confidence and letting God use them!

Unfortunately, too many pastors think and feel they need to do it all!  The all feel the the need to micro-manage.  For the record, I do NOT micro-manange.  I can't stand being micro-managed.   As a leader or a boss do you feel the need to micro-manage? Do you all leaders to lead?

Jesus never micro-managed...Jesus, equipped, enabled and empowered.  He allowed His disciples to make mistakes. 

Leaders I respect the most are those who empower others.  Every pastor I served under were leaders...they weren't micro-managers.  They made the decision to hire me, they felt I was the right for the position and they allowed me to lead through empowerment.  They allowed me to through my gifts.  When these leaders of healthy churches decided to bring on their teams, they knew I would the seat I should be in on the bus.  God gave them that ability and they trusted their calling and they trusted the calling that God gave me.

When hiring don't just hire employees, hire leaders and visionaries.  Empower others to lead and carry the vision with you.  Do you trust those God led you to hire on your teams?  If not, it may not be that person, it might be you, perhaps you didn't pray about it or you or seek God's will for the hiring decision.

Ultimately, I am thankful for a Lord and Savior who leads me. God never micro-manages my life. If you need to micro-manage others, you hired the wrong people.  Are the right people seated in the right seat on the bus?

It has been my experience over the last 19 years of ministry that healthy churches don't micro-manage, pastors don't micro-manage and boards don't micro-manage a pastor.  Be an empowerer!

Love to hear your thoughts on this.

Saturday, January 05, 2013

Processing Vision


 In a few weeks, our Lead and Management team will be talking about Vision for Lakeside Community Church.  Here are a few things I am process when it comes to vision.  Would love from other Visionary Pastors your thoughts on going through the Vision Process with your team.

I pulled together resources that I have gathered over my 19 years of ministry experience, especially doing ministry in high impact churches.  I have seen the fruit of many of these things when they are implemented.

One of the saddest things in the world is the person who can see, but who does not have a vision. Determining a vision is the basic way a church defines and expresses itself. Such a vision is not humanly devised, but God-given, I would rather have ONE GOD IDEA than a thousand GOOD ideas. With a compelling vision, churches will not be paralyzed by the “activity trap.”

A classic definition of vision is one developed by George Barna. “Vision for ministry is a mental image of a preferable future, imparted by God to His chosen servants, based on an accurate understanding of God, self, and circumstances.” (The Power of Vision, pg. 28)
  • A clear mental image:
Vision is a picture held in your mind's eye of the way things could or should be in the days ahead. At first it is yours personally, but eventually you must be able to show/share that vision with others so that they might see it. A fuzzy view is not a clear image.
  • Preferable:
Vision involves change. Vision is never about maintaining the status quo, or preparing for mere maintenance. Vision is about stretching reality to go beyond the existing state.
  • Future:
Vision focuses on thinking ahead, rather than dwelling upon or seeking to replicate the past.
  • Imparted by God:
While He allows us ample latitude and creativity to articulate, disseminate, and implement the vision, make no mistake about it -- visionary leaders get their vision for ministry from God.
  • Chosen Leader(s):
God provides vision to leaders. Leaders know what to do with vision.
The primary vision caster in churches is the pastor. He designs a picture for the future and fuels the church’s spiritual and imaginative capacities. The congregation embraces the vision.
A person can starve to death in a full pantry if his vision is at floor level.
  • Constantly ask/answer the question, “Who are we as a church?”
  • Keep members focused on the vision.
  • Focus on self and not others. (“What am I doing” is more important that what others do.)
  • Advance the vision by steadily monitoring the church’s course.
  • Help the pastor to re-dream the vision from time to time.
  • Lead in focusing on the vision of mission instead of being over-focused on the pastor/staff.
  • Realize that when the way forward is unclear, it is difficult to be wholehearted.
  • Understand that if the vision is vague, people lose interest.

ESTABLISH URGENCY IN CASTING VISION:  (THIS IS SOMETHING THAT NEEDS TO BE DONE SOONER RATHER THAN LATER)

Establishing urgency, casting the vision, and then seeing the vision carried out is spelled out by John P. Kotter as an eight stage process. Kotter, writing form a secular perspective, gives a very helpful paradigm for the process of vision casting that ends with the “anchoring” of the vision into the culture of the organization. His eight stage process is:
1. Establishing a sense of urgency
2. Creating the guiding coalition
3. Developing a Vision and Strategy
4. Communicating the change vision
5. Empowering broad-based action
6. Generating short term wins
7. Consolidating gains and producing more change
8. Anchoring new approaches in the culture (Kotter 1996, 21)
    
     A new vision for a local church must permeate all aspects of the ministry. The pastor must be the primary vision caster; but for a vision to move from ink and paper to action in the church, the leadership of the church must be convinced of the need for and usefulness of the vision.  The church leadership, which may include staff, deacons, elders, board members, or other key leaders, must work to support and cast the vision as well. These leaders would be the equivalent of Kotter’s guiding coalition. The purpose of the “coalition” is to guide the organization, in this case the church, through the process of implementing the new vision.


     All ministries of the church should seek in some way to provide education about the vision of the church. This is, in Kotter’s terminology, the broad-based action. The church must put into action its vision throughout the organization, not only in the front office or the worship service. Sunday School, small groups, senior adults, youth, and all other ministries of the church must take the new vision seriously enough to act upon the vision. Malphurs says that every activity within the body of the church represents an opportunity to communicate the message (Malphurs 2005, 64). The broad-based action of the church to execute the vision within each smaller ministry results in the execution of the vision by the larger church over all.
    
     The vision should also be referred to in some way on print publications, church bulletins, and websites. If a vision is to take root in the fertile soil of urgency, the vision must be cast far and wide. Scripture plainly says that the one who sows sparingly will reap sparingly. The same is true for the vision of the church. If the vision is not cast far and wide, the leader should not expect that the vision will be accepted by a large number of congregants. However, if the leadership of the church believes in the vision and in the possibility of a brighter future and works to spread the excitement of the vision, the visionary can and should expect to see the vision carried out in the life of the church.
   
     As a final note on communication, nothing should be assumed in the communication of a new vision within the local church. The story is told of Vince Lombardi, one of the greatest NFL coaches of all time, that he started the first practice of every season in the locker room with a football in his hand. To his professional football players, Lombardi would show the football and say, “this is a football.” From there Lombardi explained his coaching strategy and their team objectives, but he assumed nothing and communicated everything. The pastor, leadership, and guiding coalition of a church during a new vision must assume nothing and communicate everything.
    
Once the vision is actively being pursued within the church, then the visionary leader is liberated to continue developing vision for the church. The freedom to do this will be given as the church finds small wins upon which it can celebrate. Andy Stanley refers to this process as “clarifying the win” (Andy Stanley).

The clearly defined win will result in celebration. As the church sees the results of the pastor’s vision, the church will empower the pastor to continue implementing change upon which the church can be built. This is Kotter’s concept of consolidating gains and producing more change. In the church, one example is seen in new members.

New membership will add to the overall workforce of the church. As the church is blessed with a greater number of laborers, the harvest can be even more plentiful. The visionary pastor in this situation, then, is faced with the task of implementing changes that incorporate expanded membership into the ministry of the church. A church engrossed in celebration and success can accept that change is good and beneficial.
    
As mentioned earlier, a great vision does not mean that there will not be uncertainty.  (With the NEW NORMAL – Are we willing to Embrace Uncertainty?)

In fact, uncertainty is the reason that vision is needed. Vision provides clarity in the midst of uncertainty. Andy Stanley suggests that leaders are allowed to be uncertain, but they must always be clear. Further he states, “The goal of leadership is not to eradicate uncertainty, but rather to manage it” (Stanley 2003, 84). “Uncertainty will not be your undoing as a leader. However, your inability to give a clear directive in the midst of uncertainty might very well be the thing that takes you out or causes you to plateau early in your career” (Stanley 2003, 98). People can trust a transparent leader who admits his fears and uncertainty as long as they are confident that the leader can navigate them through the future, regardless of what it may hold.
    
     The visionary pastor is not a fortune teller, but he is a leader. The visionary leader is willing to say “I don’t know,” but he also says “but, we’ll find a way.”

Many writers today use the term coaching in reference to leadership. This is an apt term because coaches can never predict what will happen during the course of an athletic event, but their game plan (or vision) enables them to adapt and adjust to address every situation on the court or playing field. The 21st Century is defined by rapid change. For the church to thrive in this new era, pastors and other leaders must develop and implement vision that will enable the church to address the ever changing future while remaining true to the sacred past and the command of God’s word.

The old adage holds true, if you aim at nothing, you’ll hit it every time. The church aiming at nothing is nearly always satisfied, but it is never living to its full potential.

The church without clearly defined vision is like a person stumbling in the darkness. The apostle Paul was not content to stumble in the darkness, instead he pressed on toward a goal. Paul had a vision and he overcame all obstacles because he knew where he was going. In the book of Acts, as quoted earlier, Paul tells Felix, “I was not disobedient to the heavenly vision.” Paul knew he was obedient because he was sure of his purpose…he had a vision.

People, for the most part, do not like change. This is especially true within the church. Human beings are creatures of habit and ideas that threaten those habits are often met with opposition. However, for a church to reach its full potential, change is essential because those habits to which people become so addicted create ruts into which Christians often fall.

Those ruts, over time, are dug deep, often so deep that church members can see only themselves within the ruts and not the possibilities of God outside of the ruts. Change is the automatic byproduct of an active vision. Change is not always comfortable, but change that is in line with God’s will keeps the church’s faith energized and its community excited. Routines bring order and stability, but they also put people to sleep.

Visionary leaders wake up the church to do the work of the Lord.

     Implementing new vision will not be easy, and the older a church is, the more difficult it will be to spur it onward to change. So, is it really worth the effort? Absolutely! Not only is vision casting worth the effort within the church, it is essential for the life of a congregation.

The question that must be asked by all pastors, leaders, deacons, lay people, and even entire churches is not, “is it worth it,” but rather “can we afford not to implement new vision?” Churches holding on to a Twentieth Century paradigm for ministry and leadership will attract people with a Twentieth Century mindset. Those people will feel very comfortable and their mindset will not be challenged. However, the church will not adapt to the changing culture and as a result, the church will slowly waste away as members of the old paradigm pass away.

Pastors and other leaders within the church must wake up and realize that the current model is broken and will be broken again in a short time as the world rushes by. The church model must be “fixed” and the fix will come through visionary leaders who prayerfully develop and institute exciting vision for the new century. (THIS WHY TO FASTING AND PRAYER...are we FASTING AND PRAYING?)

REFERENCE LIST (ENCOURAGE YOU TO CHECK A FEW RESOURCES)

Barna, George. 1993. The Power of Vision. Ventura, CA: Regal Books.
Blanchard, Ken, and Phil Hodges. 2003. The Servant Leader. Nashville, TN: J. Countryman.
Collins, Jim. 2001. Good to Great: Why Some Companies Make the Leap and Others Don’t.
New York: Harper Collins Publishers.
Cionca, John R. 2004. Before you Move: A Guide to Making Transitions in Ministry. Grand
Rapids, MI: Kregel Publications.
Kotter, John P. 1996. Leading Change. Boson, Massachusetts: Harvard Business School
Press.
Malphurs, Aubrey. 1998. Planting Growing Churches for The 21st Century. Grand Rapids,
Michigan: Baker Books.
Malphurs, Aubrey. 2005. Advanced Strategic Planning. Grand Rapids, Michigan: Baker
Books.
Maxwell, John C. 2003. Equipping 101: What Ever Leader Needs to Know. Nashville:
Thomas Nelson Publishers.
McManus, Erwin Raphael. 2002. Chasing Daylight. Nashville, TN: Nelson Books.
Monroe, Myles. 2003. The Principles and Power of Vision. New Kensington, PA: Whitaker
House Publishing.
Prime, Derek, and Alistair Begg. 2004. On Being a Pastor. Chicago: Moody Publishers.
Rainer, Thom S. 2001. Surprising Insights from The Unchurched, and Proven Ways To
Reach Them. Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan.
Sanders, J. Oswald. 1994. Spiritual Leadership: Principles of Excellence for Every Believer.
Chicago: Moody Press.
Stanley, Andy. 2001. Visioneering: God’s Blueprint for Developing and Maintaining Personal
Vision. Oregon: Multinomah Publishers, Inc.
Stanley, Andy. 2003. The Next Generation Leader. Oregon: Multinomah Publishers, Inc.
Stanley, Andy. 2003. Practically Speaking (downloadable audio from Northpoint Community
Church). http://www.practicallyspeaking.org/

NOW THE IMPORTANCE OF COMMUNICATING THE VISION:  (THIS IS WHAT THE PEOPLE WANT)

1. STATE IT SIMPLY.

Take time to think through what exactly it is you are trying to accomplish….And state it in a way that you can say it quickly and succinctly….The memorable is portable…You need a portable vision….It doesn’t have to be cool or rhyme….Be aware of the “Curse of Knowledge” – you know so much of what you’re doing you assume everyone else knows what you’re doing….Vision doesn’t stick on it’s own….People aren’t asking stupid questions – they’re just showing us how poorly we’ve communicated it….What is it that people who volunteer in your organization come together to do….One campaign – “to make poverty history.” You’ll know this vision for the rest of our lives….Doesn’t even have to be original….Not just committed to GROWTH, but committed to MULTIPLICATION….Its’ one thing to say one thing over and over who sit in front of you in rows, entirely different to communicate it through several tiers….Sometimes very powerful statements and vision statements come accidentally….As you think about what you’re trying to do, you serve yourself and others well to ask yourself, “when people show up for work or plan a service, etc….What have we come together to do?” What’s the one sentence job description associated w/ organization?

2. CAST IT CONVINCINGLY

Neh 2 – the ultimate explanation/illustration of casting vision…..the WALL has been torn down for a long time….Casts vision as to WHY they need to REBUILD NOW….Did it in 50 + days with 3 components: (1)Define the problem, (2) Offer a solution, (3)Explain WHY and WHY NOW….If people don’t feel the problem they are not excited about the solution. EVER! You need to learn to craft your vision as a solution to a problem….You’ve got to understand the problem that your vision is a solution for….Most people don’t have a problem w/ Jesus, they just don’t like the church….What is the problem that our vision addresses?….To ask yourself: What must be done in the environment you find yourself in? What would go undone if your organization ceased to exist?….“Business Solutions” – Google this. Because businesses have learned to position themselves as a solution to a problem.

3. REPEAT IT REGULARLY

You have never stated it enough. Look at the rhythm of your organization….At Northpoint in January is our highest attendance so we use this time for vision casting. Staff asks, “Shouldn’t we do something practical?” No….You need to discover what those are and build into the rhythm the times to cast vision. Can’t do it sporadically….When Andy casts vision, he almost always feels like he just preached the SAME THING!! But people still get moved by it! Why? Because vision doesn’t stick!

4. CELEBRATE IT CONSISTENTLY

Not only a matter of repeating it, But find ways to celebrate it….When you catch somebody living out the vision the way you anticipate, celebrate it! Show it! Say, “This is what I’m talking about!”….Stories do more to clarify more than anything….An emotion brings to life these phrases, sentences, etc…The first question asked at staff meeting is, “Where have you seen (insert your vision statement here) lived out this week?”

5. EMBRACE IT PERSONALLY

Talk about it! In your attempts to be humble or below the radar – you might be missing opportunities. Gives people permission to push the envelope in their own life.

The importance of getting the big picture right (VISION), before nailing down the detail.
VISION BEFORE THE STRATEGIC PLANNING
  • Mission: A non-negotiable imperative. A statement about why we exist. It’s usually industry-specific (i.e. common to churches). For example: “Make disciples”.
  • Vision: An expression of a broader mission, specific to the particular church. For example: “Create churches unchurched people love to attend.”
  • Model: How do we do this here.
Beneath these, are programming, products and services. And you want the people in your church to be more committed to the mission and vision, than than are to the ways we seek to achieve these.

I like the way that Steve Furtick explains this:
“Marry the vision, hire the strategy.”
Andy encourages leaders to keep asking one question:
“What’s the best way to…”
This will help you to continually review the program as a means of achieving a mission and a vision.
For example:
“What’s the best way to get adults into small groups?”, and
“What’s the best way to get singles involved in the local church?”

Vision: A mental picture of what could be, fueled by a passion that it should be. Vision leaks. It’s a daily enterprise for leaders to make sure vision sticks.

As we look ahead and have VISION for the future at Lakeside Community Church I want us to have these thoughts and questions in mind:

1. Pray and fast!  Nothing comes without seeking God sand allowing you to speak to you.  Without this nothing else matters!

2.  Are we opened up to God ideas, new ideas, are we looking at ways we have never done things before?

3.  Are we willing to embrace uncertainty?

4.  Don’t allow our budget to determine our VISION!  Let our VISION determine our budget!  If it is a God-ordained VISION – God WILL provide!  Faith is spelled R-I-S-K!

5.  Don’t allow fear to keep us from a VISION!  Fear in the unknown will Short circuit the God possibilities!

6.  Keep asking the question – “WHAT IF?”

7.  We need to continue to do recon – LOOK at Healthy Models of Churches that are resistant to stay stagnant.  We need to keep growing and learning from churches who are way ahead of where we are at.

Would love to hear from other pastors who have gone through the vision process.  Want to get your take as visionary leaders of your churches.

Thursday, January 03, 2013

Great Wisdom in the Tension -The 13 Things Churches Do to Plan to Stagnate (SATIRE with A P.S.) via Dick Hardy

Love this article!  Great wisdom for pastors and church leaders.  Love it!

This was written by Dick Hardy - https://www.thehardygroup.org

The 13 Things Churches Do to Plan to Stagnate (SATIRE with A P.S.)

“The economy is down.” 
“The economy is up.” 
“Who knows where the economy is going to go?” 
“Whatever is happening out there I am just going to wait it out.”

Amid others, these statements are the kind of quotes made literally or figuratively by church leaders, pastors and boards around the country. 

These are good people who are setting in place stagnation for the churches they serve. No leader would ever say that they are planning to stagnate the greatest mission on the planet to which they have been entrusted. However, that is exactly what is happening in far too many churches.

To state the obvious, the 13 things are purely satire. 

Read them that way. I will say that many of the things I list below I have actually seen or heard in churches across the country. It is a sad commentary on the leadership of those churches. 

As leadership of the church you serve I implore you to do everything you can to prevent church stagnation. Do not PLAN to stagnate.

However, if you insist on stagnating, staying flat, or maybe even moving a few people out of the seats and parking spaces, I encourage you to follow one or more of the 13 things to successful stagnation. 

1.           Wait & See – With the economy in the tank, coming out of the tank, going further into the tank, pick your poison; I recommend you wait and see before you do anything to advance the Gospel. Certainly something uncertain will pop up and you had better wait and see before moving forward with plans to reach more people for Jesus.
2.           Make an Idle Plan – This is sure to keep the church board and leadership convinced that you actually are trying to move the church forward. You do not even have to be excited about this plan. Just put one together that you can tout as being “the plan” and then do nothing with it. Works every time!
3.           Sit Back & Coast – You have had some good momentum and that is sure to last you during any uncertain times. Besides that you deserve a break. It will do you no good to forge ahead so sit back and coast. Rest. It will be good for you. Maybe even for the church. They deserve a break today!
4.            Play to the Naysayers – You have a good number of very smart analytical people in the church you serve. These folks were invaluable to you during Y2K and now you should really listen to them. Play it safe and don’t make any mistakes. Something is going to go wrong. Plan on it!
5.            Focus on the Short Term – Forget the long-term. In the good times, you had the luxury of planning ahead but now, forget it. Think only about next Sunday and maybe next month if you have to. Besides that short-term gains, if they are to be had, are the only things that count.
6.            Forget About What Bill Hybels, Rick Warren, Ed Young & Andy Stanley Are Doing – These guys in S. Barrington, Lake Forest, Dallas and Alpharetta do not have to deal with the real world of economic downturns so why should you look to any successes they might be developing. Besides, they will be there after you get done playing to the naysayers.
7.           Assume Technology Can Wait – One of the things that happens is when things turn downward Bill Gates and Steve Jobs go on really long vacations. In the same way certainly nothing of any value to the church will come down the pike while the church sits tight. Besides that you have made it into the 90s in technology. Maybe you can get into the 00s when everything improves.
8.           Maintain the Status Quo – You know that a lot of churches are declining and that if you have a 25% attrition rate, actually you have to grow by 25% to stay level. So do not feel so bad if you don’t plan to improve your total number over last year because you grew anyway. Math always was your strong suit.
9.           Just Get By – You know as church leaders that there is a level of superior excellence, and then there is a level that is acceptable to most people. Live with the acceptable. You can get by and you should.
10.        Tolerate Stuff – You were so legalistic and such a stickler for detail when the church was growing and developing momentum. Ease up. Remember God is a God of grace so during this tough time you can tolerate stuff. Nobody will really notice that you are not performing at the top of your game. Tolerate.
11.        Stop Thinking of New Approaches to Ministry – For goodness sakes, we are in a downturn. Why in the world would you try to think of new ways to reach people with the Gospel? Stick with the tried and true. If that does not work, you have to know God is not ignorant of what is going on down here.
12.        Allow Your Core Values to Lapse – Core values are critical to steering the ship, certainly in the beginning. Now, however, you are facing unprecedented times so you can let these values lapse for just a bit. You know down deep you will come back to them, but now is the time to operate with a different set of values.
13.        Circle the Wagons – Bill, Rick, Ed and Andy can do the heavy lifting. It is time for you to retrench and prevent any mistakes. Don’t take on any water. Make sure no one on the outside gets in. Just take care of those on the inside. Evangelism and missions will return when the risk is less. That is good stewardship of your resources.
So there you have it, the 13 things you can do to stagnate the church you serve. Can’t wait to see what that formerly great church you have been called to serve looks like after you implement one or more of these 13.
Good luck!
P.S. Put a “Don’t” in front of all 13 things and see what that does.

Friday, December 28, 2012

Great Wisdom in Tension - Seven Regrets of Pastors

One of my online mentors and a great author of many books that I have read, Thom Rainer posted this a few weeks ago.

I would love to hear your thoughts on this as well.  Especially if you have been a pastor for any length of time.

Personally, I have promised myself several years ago that I would personally not fall into any of these regrets. I am going to post some of my personal commentaries with each regret.

I have many friends, who are in ministry that have shared some of these regrets with me.  I believe this is GREAT WISDOM even in the TENSION of doing pastoral ministry.

This was originally posted here - http://thomrainer.com/2012/12/19/the-top-seven-regrets-of-pastors/#.UN3SgrZEDu0

I recently interviewed more than twenty pastors who had been in ministry for at least 25 years. All of these men were over 55 years old.  A few of them were retired, but most of them were still active in fulltime vocational ministry.
The interview was simple. I asked one open-ended question: “What regrets do you have about the years you have served as a pastor?” Each of the men could provide as many responses as they desired. They could make the answers succinct, or they could elaborate upon them.

Three pastors had as few as two responses; one pastor had nine. Most of the pastors noted three or four regrets. As a researcher, I typically see patterns develop in this type of subjective research. When it concluded, I was able to see seven definitive patterns, and I was able to see the frequency they occurred.
Below are the top seven regrets noted in order of frequency. I received a total of 17 different responses, but only these seven occurred with any degree of repetition. After each regret, I provide a representative direct quote from one of the interviewees.
  1. Lack of practical training for local church ministry. “I was not prepared for 80 percent of my day-to-day ministry after I graduated from seminary. I wish I had taken time to find some resources or places where I could get practical training. I had to learn in the school of hard knocks, and it was very painful at times.”   (Over my 19 years of ministry I have been given some amazing hands on practical experience.  Experience I know that I would have never had in Bible College.  Personally, I learn more through hands on experiences.  Full time ministry is not easy, it is not for the faint of heart.)
  2. Overly concerned about critics. “I had this naïve view that a bunch of Christians in a church would always show love toward each other. Boy was I wrong! There are some mean church members out there. My regret is that I spent way too much time and emotional energy dealing with the critics. I think of the hundreds of hours I lost focusing on critics, and it grieves me to this day.” (If you are in full time ministry as a pastor, you need to be SECURE in your own skin.  INSECURITY is cancer for a pastor.  My friend and mentor Mark Batterson posted about how to deal with Criticism...
    Thought I’d share a few thoughts on the topic of criticism. I’m honestly surprised I don’t have more critics than I do, but I have my fair share. Here is a simple rule of thumb: if you are a leader you will be criticized. Period. If you’re not being criticized you might not be a leader! But how you handle it is so critical.
    A few months ago I heard Brian Houston say something so good and so true: “I’d rather be a film maker than a film critic.” His point? There are those who do and those who criticize those who do. I’d rather be a doer than a critic. And I’ve learned that the more critical a person is the less they’ve probably done. Just shooting straight.
    In the words of Teddy Roosevelt: “It is not the critic who counts, not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles or the where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood.”
    Life is too short and the message is too important to spend our energies criticizing each other. Infighting must break the Heavenly Father’s heart. It’s self-righteous. It’s sideways energy. And when we take pot shots at each other we’re just playing into the enemy’s hands. We need to be about the Father’s business!
    Let me share a few lessons I’ve learned about criticism:
    1) Thou Shalt Offend Pharisees. Jesus didn’t have the time of day for the self-appointed critics who formed the religious establishment. He didn’t back down. He confronted their hypocrisy. If you follow in Jesus’ footsteps, you’ll offend some pharisees along the way!
    2) Don’t play defense. Life is too short to get defensive. Celebrate your weaknesses and failures. That’ll defuse criticism quicker than anything else. Keep a humble spirit but keep playing offense for the kingdom!
    3) Consider the source! An insult from a fool is actually a compliment and a compliment from a fool is actually an insult.
    4) Preach for an audience of one. The only person you’re accountable to as a preacher is the One who called you in the first place. Never forget it. And for the record, critics will also be held accountable for the criticisms they wield so easily and so quickly.
    5) Don’t get into an argument! I love Proverbs 26:4, “When arguing with fools, don’t answer their foolish arguments, or you will become as foolish as they are.” The very next verse says, “When arguing with fools, be sure to answer their foolish arguments, or they will become wise in their own estimation.” Those back-to-back verse seem to contradict each other but I think they reveal a deeper truth: if you’re arguing with a fool you can’t win.
    6) Make sure criticism passes the filter test. I love the way Erwin McManus says this: “Don’t let an arrow of criticism pierce your heart unless it passes through the filter of Scripture.” If criticism passes the biblical filter, then you better repent. If it doesn’t pass the filter test, then rebuke it. Either way, make sure your heart stays soft.
    One last thing. A leader is never beyond rebuke, correction or exhortation. But I would advise that you listen to the people who know you and love you. In fact, make sure you have people in your life that can speak truth and hold you accountable.
    The bottom line? Don’t be a critic. Be a doer of deeds.)
  3. Failure to exercise faith. “At some point in my ministry, I started playing defense and let the status quo become my way of doing church. I was fearful of taking steps of faith, and my leadership and churches suffered as a result. Not only was I too cautious in the churches I served, I was too cautious in my own ministry. I really felt God calling me to plant a church at one point, but I was just too fearful to take that step.”  (I have learned over my time in ministry to operate in faith.  My faith in constant and consistent prayer.  We need to keep seeking God for God-sized ideas.)
  4. Not enough time with family. “I can’t say that people didn’t warn me. One wise pastor told me I had a mistress. When he saw my anger rising, he told me that my mistress was busyness in my church, and that my family was suffering from neglect. It hurts me to say this, but one of my adult sons is still in rebellion, and I know it is a direct result of my neglect of him when he was young.”  (It is important to set boundaries!  You need to set healthy boundaries between ministry and family. This is non negotiable.  Your FAMILY is your FIRST MINISTRY.  Family is priority for me.  I rather lose "my pastoring job" than lose my family. )
  5. Failure to understand basic business and finance issues. “The first time I saw my church’s budget, I thought I was looking at a foreign language. Greek is a lot easier than finance. They sure don’t teach you basic church finance and business at seminary, and I didn’t take the initiative to educate myself. I really felt stupid in so many of the discussions about the budget or other church business issues.”  (This is probably my weakest area, but as a Pastor, you have to know something about everything.  You need to continue to stretch yourself and grow in this area.)
  6. Failure to share ministry. “Let me shoot straight. I had two complexes. The first was the Superman complex. I felt like if ministry was going to be done well, I had to do it. I couldn’t ask or equip someone else to do it. My second complex was the conflict avoider complex. I was so afraid that I would get criticized if I didn’t visit Aunt Susie personally when she had an outpatient procedure that I ran myself ragged. In my second church I suffered burnout and ended up resigning.”  (I have learned overtime to equip, enable and empower others.  Ministry is NOT meant to be done alone.)
  7. Failure to make friends. “I know it’s cliché, but being a pastor can be lonely. I think many pastors get in trouble because we can get so lonely. I wish I had done a better job of seeking out true friends. I know if I had made the effort, there would have been a number of pastors in town that I could have befriended. Sometimes I got so busy doing ‘stuff’ that I didn’t have time to do the things that really matter.”  (I have learned the hard way not to get too close to people you lead in ministry.  I have amazing friends both inside ministry and outside of ministry.  Lora and I both have friends that we trust with everything, where we can be totally vulnerable with them.  Yes, ministry is lonely and you need to have healthy friendships.)
So what do you think of these top seven regrets? What would you add?

Let me know what you think.

Wednesday, December 26, 2012

20 Traits of Creative Leaders via Stephen Brewster

This is not my list, however this would be my list if I would create one.  Stephen Brewster nailed it!    

I underlined and bolded my favorites!  Definitely all of them would be on my list.  One I would add to the list...a creative leader is secure in his own skin.  Insecurity is cancerous in leadership.  Are you a secure Creative Leader? 

Pastors we must be creative leaders in our churches and in our communities.  That means we may need to go against the flow at times.
Check it out and tell me your thoughts.
Leadership is intangible, and therefore no weapon ever designed can replace it. – Omar N. Bradley
Here are a few traits I have learned working for and with some amazing leaders. (with the obvious Christian focus removed):
1. Set the tone and set it with passion and audacity.
2. Avoid drama and create peace.
3. Think positive, but realistic.
4. Lead by serving.
5. Act as much as they talk.
6. Ensure that their words and actions align; own and correct it when they don’t.
7. Plan.
8. Know they don’t have all the answers all the time.
9. Ask questions more than you make statements.
10. Trust their team to do their jobs.
11. Set and articulate expectations.
12. Insist on results.
13. Delegate. Then, delegate more.
14. Give others credit.
15. Listen. Listen. Listen. Then respond.
16. Have compassion, but don’t be fooled.
17. Respond instead of react.
18. Hire talented, young, future leaders and trust them even when they fail…and never stop investing in them.
19. Know their idea is not always the best idea.
20. Never stop learning.

What are traits you look for in a leader? What traits are you attempting to model?

Tuesday, December 25, 2012

The Christmas Story from Luke's Gospel and Prophicies of His birth


This morning before we opened up any gifts, we read the Gospel of Luke account of the Christmas story 
At that time the Roman emperor, Augustus, decreed that a census should be taken throughout the Roman Empire. (This was the first census taken when Quirinius was governor of Syria.) All returned to their own ancestral towns to register for this census. And because Joseph was a descendant of King David, he had to go to Bethlehem in Judea, David’s ancient home. He traveled there from the village of Nazareth in Galilee. He took with him Mary, his fiancée, who was now obviously pregnant.
And while they were there, the time came for her baby to be born. She gave birth to her first child, a son. She wrapped him snugly in strips of cloth and laid him in a manger, because there was no lodging available for them.
That night there were shepherds staying in the fields nearby, guarding their flocks of sheep. Suddenly, an angel of the Lord appeared among them, and the radiance of the Lord’s glory surrounded them. They were terrified, 10 but the angel reassured them. “Don’t be afraid!” he said. “I bring you good news that will bring great joy to all people. 11 The Savior—yes, the Messiah, the Lord—has been born today in Bethlehem, the city of David! 12 And you will recognize him by this sign: You will find a baby wrapped snugly in strips of cloth, lying in a manger.”
13 Suddenly, the angel was joined by a vast host of others—the armies of heaven—praising God and saying,
14 “Glory to God in highest heaven,
    and peace on earth to those with whom God is pleased.”
15 When the angels had returned to heaven, the shepherds said to each other, “Let’s go to Bethlehem! Let’s see this thing that has happened, which the Lord has told us about.”
16 They hurried to the village and found Mary and Joseph. And there was the baby, lying in the manger. 17 After seeing him, the shepherds told everyone what had happened and what the angel had said to them about this child. 18 All who heard the shepherds’ story were astonished, 19 but Mary kept all these things in her heart and thought about them often. 20 The shepherds went back to their flocks, glorifying and praising God for all they had heard and seen. It was just as the angel had told them.
I am fascinated about the prophetic account of the birth of Jesus long before He was born and seeing the fulfillment of the prophecies. 

Prophecy of Jesus Birth was spoken long before He was born...

The Messiah will be born in Bethlehem.
In the 8th Century B.C., the prophet Micah prophesied that the small village of Bethlehem would give birth to the Messiah:

“But you, O Bethlehem Ephrathah, are only a small village in Judah. Yet a ruler of Israel will come from you, one whose origins are from the distant past.” Micah 5:2

Over 700 years later, Jesus of Nazareth was born:
“Jesus was born in the town of Bethlehem in Judea, during the reign of King Herod.” Matthew 2:1

Great kings will pay homage and tribute to the Messiah.
The Psalm 72, recorded approximately 1,000 years before the birth of Jesus, foreshadowed a time when foreign kings would travel from distant lands to pay tribute to the Messiah:

“The western kings of Tarshish and the islands will bring him tribute. The eastern kings of Sheba and Seba will bring him gifts.” Psalm 72:10-11

Years later, the baby Jesus became the object of worship for wise men from distant lands:

“About that time, some wise men from eastern lands arrived in Jerusalem, asking, ‘Where is the newborn king of the Jews? We have seen his star as it arose, and we have come to worship him.” Matthew 2:1-2

“They entered the house where the child and his mother, Mary, were, and they fell down before him and worshiped him.”

The Messiah will be a descendant of David.

The Psalm 132, recorded approximately 1,000 years before Jesus, prophesied the Messiah would be a descendant of King David:

“The Lord swore to David a promise he will never take back: ‘I will place one of your descendants on your throne. If your descendants obey the terms of my covenant and follow the decrees that I teach them, then your royal line will never end.” Psalm 132:11

The prophet Jeremiah, writing approximately 600 years before the birth of Jesus, twice declared that the Messiah would be a descendant of King David:

“‘For the time is coming,’ says the Lord, ‘when I will place a righteous Branch on King David’s throne. He will be a King who rules with wisdom. He will do what is just and right through the land.” Jeremiah 23:5-6

“At that time I will bring to the throne of David a righteous descendant, and he will do what is just and right throughout the land.” Jeremiah 33:15
Following the birth of Jesus, the angel Gabriel declared:

“He will be very great and will be called the Son of the Most High. And the Lord God will give him the throne of his ancestor David. And he will reign over Israel forever; his Kingdom will never end!” Luke 1:32-33

The Messiah will be born of a virgin.

More than 650 years before the birth of Jesus of Nazareth, the prophet Isaiah relayed the Lord’s promise that the Messiah would be born of a virgin:

“All right then, the Lord himself will choose the sign. Look! The virgin will conceive a child! She will give birth to a son and will call him Immanuel – ‘God is with us.’” Isaiah 7:14
This prophecy was fulfilled approximately 700 years later, when the virgin Mary, engaged to Joseph, gave birth to Jesus of Nazareth:

“But while she was still a virgin, she became pregnant by the Holy Spirit. Joseph, her fiancé, being a just man, decided to break the engagement quietly, so as not to disgrace her publicly. As he considered this, he fell asleep, and an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream. ‘Joseph, son of David,’ the angel said, ‘do not be afraid to go ahead with your marriage to Mary. For the child within her has been conceived by the Holy Spirit. And she will have a son, and you are to name him Jesus, for he will save his people from their sins.’” Matthew 1:18-21

The Messiah will be the Son of God.

The second psalm, recorded approximately 1,000 years before Jesus, prophesied that the Messiah would be the Son of God:

“The king proclaims the Lord’s decree: ‘The Lord said to me, ‘You are my son. Today, I have become your Father. Only ask, and I will give you the nations as your inheritance, the ends of the earth as your possession.” Psalm 2:7-8

Following the Baptism of Jesus of Nazareth, a voice from heaven testified that Jesus is the fulfillment of Psalm 2:
“And a voice from heaven said, ‘This is my beloved Son, and I am fully pleased with him.’” Matthew 3:17

Monday, December 24, 2012

Great Wisdom in the Tension - Vision and Finance

I have learned so many great lessons in my 19 years of ministry.  Many of these lessons weren't learned from books but from experiences.  Through learning these lesson, I have had the opportunity to gain some great wisdom.

I have also learned many of these lessons the hard way, but some of the lessons I learned through very positive experiences.  I have seen what God can do through His people especially when there is vision.

I am a visionary leader.  I am a leader who has a great deal of faith, because I have seen what our AWESOME God Can do when we trust Him.


And He said to them, "When I sent you without money bag, knapsack and sandals, did you lack any thing?" so they said "nothing". (LK 22:35)

FINANCIAL CLIFF OR FINANCIAL LIFT?

Which will it be?  According to leadershipnet.org church offerings and worship attendance actually increased in 2012 inspite of the nation's economic landscape.  leadership.net research indicates that 73% of churches surveyed, expect to meet or exceed their 2012 budgets in 2013.  Church leadership must decide for their congregations "financial cliff or financial lift?"

VISION BEYOND RESOURCES

 "We want to give a gift, and there are no strings attached, but before I tell you how much we're going to give, I want to tell you why we're giving it.  We're giving the gift because you have a vision beyond your resources - we want to give the church three million dollars." Mark Batterson, The Circle Maker

Most churches don't have a money problem, they have a vision problem.  MONEY FOLLOWS VISION.  Here are a couple principles that I know:  God will bless your church and you individually in proportion to how you give to the poor in your area and how you give to missions.  WHAT ARE YOUR THOUGHTS ON THIS STATEMENT?

The other principle I find to be true:  Finances follow vision!  WHAT ARE YOUR THOUGHTS ON THIS STATEMENT?


Here are a few thoughts about finances and vision.  Can you embrace wisdom in the tension?


"People give to causes that flow out of vision, I don't articulate a vision for the sole purpose of raising money, but if I cast vision well, I see money raised." Gary Fenton, Mastering Church Finances

"The silver is mine, and the gold is mine, says the Lord of hosts." (Haggi 2:8)

David had a vision for the building of a temple to house the ark of the covenant.  He purchased the land and began to amass the resources to be used in the construction of the temple.  He said to his son Solomon:

"I have worked hard to provide material for building the temple of the Lord - nearly 4,000 tons of gold,  40,000 tons of silver, and so much iron and bronze it cannot be weighed.  I have gathered timber and stone for the walls, though you may need to add more." (1Chronicles 22:14 NLT)

At todays prices, the value of 4,000 tons of gold is approximately 217,600,000 dollars.  The silver is worth approximately 448,000,000 dollars.  This massive amount doesn't include what David and the leaders contributed in silver, gold, iron and bronze.  They gave an additional 308 tons of gold, 10,000 gold coins, 640 tons of silver, 675 tons of bronze and 3,750 tons of iron. (1Chronicles 29:4-8)

"The people rejoiced over the offerings, for they had given freely and whole- heartedly to the Lord, and King David was filled with joy." (1Chronicles 29:9)

The point of the story - MONEY FOLLOWS VISION.  Current resources should not be allowed to determine the size of your vision.  Let your vision determine the size of your resources.  In other word, DON'T LET YOUR BUDGET DETERMINE YOUR VISION; LET YOUR VISION DETERMINE YOUR BUDGET. Finances will follow vision.  You need to steward those finances well and above reproach.

"If God be your partner - plan BIG" says D.L. Moody.  God's vision will have God's provision. TONS OF IT!

Love what a good friend of mine Joshua Symonette said recently on Twitter, "I love to set my bar in unrealistic territory. And it may actually be unrealistic, who knows. But the pursuit is a lot more interesting."  That to me is having God sized vision.

Here are some great budgeting/stewarding tips for you to consider from my pastor, mentor and friend Mark Batterson:

And whether it’s been a good year or tough year financially, it’s so important that you have solid stewardship practices in place. Here are a few of ours.

1) Make sure you put missions first. It seems disingenuous to me to ask people to tithe if you aren’t tithing to missions as a church. I honestly believe God will bless us in proportion to how we’re giving to missions. It’s the one budget category that we always want to be over!

2) Don’t overestimate your income. If you do, you’ll feel the pressure each week. Our YTD giving is up 40% in 2010, but we won’t budget for a 40% increase next year. It’s not a lack of faith. We’ll budget a 10% increase, hoping we have a 40% increase, but it’ll force us to budget the expense side better!

3) Your greatest resource is your people. No one goes into ministry to “get rich quick.” But I also think that staff shouldn’t be underpaid. There is obviously lots of tension in this area. We spend less than 40% of our overall budget on staff. And I’d honestly like to be closer to 33%. Here’s one rule of thumb: don’t hire so many staff that you can’t pay them all what they are worth. I’d rather have fewer staff that are well-paid than lots of staff that are poorly paid.

4) Don’t let your budget determine your vision. Let your vision determine your budget. This doesn’t mean you budget unobtainable income numbers, but it does mean that you put money into those ministries that have the greatest evangelistic impact. Spend less on low-return ministries and more on high-return ministries.

5) One mechanism that has helped us immeasurably is something we call our wish list. It’s really a faith list. These are ministries, projects, visions we need money for, but we don’t put them into our regular budget. We believe that God will provide above and beyond our budget to help make these things happen. Our launches, for example, are on our wish list. We believe God will provide the $100,000 to make it happen if He’s in it. God always makes provision when a vision is from Him!

Would love to hear your thoughts on this?  What tensions do you face when it comes to vision and finances?  How can you grow through the process?  How can your faith be stretched in a greater way?


Sunday, December 23, 2012

A Letter For My Lakeside Community Church Family

Dear Lakeside Church Family,

I believe that hope in Jesus Christ is the seed, the beginning of every good thing in our lives. Hope gives birth to a new way of living. It always believes for the best, even in the face of the worst circumstances.

You can have hope today -- no matter what surrounds you -- because you serve a mighty God who cares, who knows you by name (Isaiah 45:3), who understands the desires of your heart (1 Chronicles 28:9), who knew you even before you were formed in your mother's womb (Jeremiah 1:5).

Let me encourage you this Christmas, it's time to look up and keep hope alive in your life! If you are facing setbacks that are simply overwhelming, you can have hope! God is for you, not against you. His resources are endless, and His love knows no bounds.

You can never buy hope in a time of crisis, but I am positive of this . . . you can give it away.

Thank you for being a part of Lakeside Community Church. I'm so glad you are here. The best is still to come! 

Every weekend, we GIFT the message of hope in Christ to those who need it most. In fact, that's what we get to do every day. And, I'm so grateful for you and all you do to spread the one true hope alongside us.

Please share with me a situation in your life that seems hopeless. Through prayer, God can take any circumstance and transform it for His glory.

Thank you for allowing me to lead and serve you as your pastor.

Many Blessings To You,

Pastor Chris

P.S. Remember, I'm thankful for who you are and the hope we share in Jesus Christ. Merry Christmas!